"It's felt good to talk about it, it's felt good to bring it out in the open.  I think it's healthy.  I don't think there has been any part of this that has been a waste of time"

"Letting steam out of the situation and clarifying in my own head things has allowed me to process them and move on"

"It's been good to think things through. I like the idea of the options that we've went through. I didn't see them before"